Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids

A 12-week program to help your child feel safe, secure and emotionally supported through divorce.

Divorce changes everything — especially for your child.

Right now, you may be juggling…

  • Tension with your ex
  • Conflicting parenting styles
  • Exhausting communication loops
  • Guilt about how the separation is affecting your child
  • Worry that you’re “messing it up”
  • Two homes, two routines, and endless negotiations
Underneath all of it sits the fear every separated parent carries:

“I don’t want my child to carry the emotional fallout of our divorce.”

You want them to feel stable. Safe. Loved.
But with so much upheaval, it can be hard to know what “good co-parenting” even looks like — especially when emotions are running high.


If that’s where you are, you’re in exactly the right place.

Introducing:

Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids

A 12-week program for divorced or divorcing parents who want to raise a resilient, emotionally secure child.

You’ll be a part of a supportive cohort for three monthly live virtual workshops and bi-monthly live group sessions with me, where you’ll receive personalized guidance, real-time answers, and the chance to connect with others who are navigating the same journey.

This program gives you the tools, structure, and emotional support you need to co-parent with more clarity and less conflict — so your child can feel grounded, connected, and secure during this major life transition.

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What You’ll Learn Inside the Program

1. Get on "Team Kiddo"

Discover how to move from the past and into coparenting mindset so that you can put your child’s needs first — even when stress, fear or old wounds get triggered.

2. Communicate Without Conflict

Learn effective communication tools that reduce misunderstandings, defensiveness, tension and emotional flare-ups between you and your co-parent.

3. Create a Stable Co-Parenting Structure

Design predictable routines and agreements that help your child feel secure across two homes.

4. Support Your Child’s Emotional World

Gain practical tools to help your child navigate grief, anxiety, confusion, loyalty binds and big feelings.

Why Co-Parenting Feels So Hard (It’s Not Your Fault)

You’re both dealing with:

  • Hurt
  • Fear
  • Stress
  • Conflicting values
  • Different communication styles
  • Old patterns resurfacing
  • A massive life transition


No one teaches parents how to co-parent well after separation.
This programme changes that.

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We’ll Address the Most Common Saboteurs of Co-Parenting:

  • Communication breakdown
  • Parenting style clashes
  • Emotional residue from the past
  • Power struggles
  • Unclear roles and expectations
  • Inconsistency between homes
  • Fear of “getting it wrong”
You'll Get:

A communication playbook

Scripts for difficult conversations

Tools for reducing emotional reactivity

Values-based decision-making frameworks

Child-focused routines that work in both homes

Parenting tips that help your child feel supported, seen and understood.

Even If Your Co-Parent Isn’t Participating

You can still dramatically improve your child’s emotional security.

Cooperative co-parenting only needs one steady, emotionally aware adult to create positive change.

By learning these tools, you become the anchor your child can rely on — no matter what the other parent does or doesn’t do.

About Your Instructor: Aurisha Smolarski

Aurisha Smolarski, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, mediator, parenting educator, and author of “Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids: The Attachment Theory Guide To Raising Kids in Two Homes”

Aurisha has spent over 15 years helping divorced and separated parents reduce conflict, strengthen communication, and create emotionally safe homes for their children. Her work blends research-backed tools, therapeutic insight, and real-world co-parenting experience.

She brings:
Deep compassion
A non-judgemental, trauma-informed perspective
A practical, accessible teaching style
A passion for helping children thrive

Parents consistently describe her approach as grounding, empowering and transformational.

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Aurisha Smolarski, LMFT

Ready to Support Your Child Through This Transition?

Join the Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids programme today and start creating more clarity, stability and emotional safety for your child.

Your child doesn’t need perfection — they need one supported, steady adult.

You can be that person, and I’ll guide you every step of the way.

Here's How It Works:

You’ll get immediate access to the Cooperative Co-Parenting Workshop and workbook, packed with practical tools you can start using right away. Each month, we’ll meet for live group workshops, plus bi-monthly live sessions with me.

You’ll walk away from each session with fresh clarity, realistic next steps, and the confidence to build the stable co-parenting structure your kids need to thrive.

Our first live virtual workshop will be on Friday, January 16th from 11am–2pm PST.

For this inaugural round, enrollment is open at a special reduced rate of $600 (normally $1200). Don’t miss out on this opportunity!

Prefer to ask a few questions first?

You can reach out directly at aurisha.smolarski@gmail.com.